The way I see it..

Intercourse- Sexual Union

That is the definition that was in my health careers book. You may find it interesting, and ask why on Earth I'm writing a blog about such a thing.

And I'll say this to you, most don't view it that way. It's a union, it's a commitment.
It's not something you should just give away.

Now, I'm not against sex before marriage. It's your body, its your choice. If you're all for waiting until after you're married, that's perfectly fine. More power to you :>

But what does bother me, is the way some of us, just fling ourselves around. Like our body is just something to be toyed with.

It's as if we don't have enough pride in ourselves, and we build ourselves up with acts that we almost rather not speak about infront of those who are stricter with their bodies.

I don't care how careful you are...things still can happen.
And if you're young...are you fully ready for what can happen?

I see it as a union. Something that shouldn't be given away just because you're feeling it in that moment, with that person. I don't think it's something to be taken too lightly, honestly.
I think, it's a commitment. And now it's not just you, but someone else.
Because they could be at fault if something happens too.
I think it should be done out of love, and i think you shouldn't be pressured into doing it.
No one in a healthy, stable relationship will ever say that they wished they gave it up sooner.
Because they understand that it can build a relationship up, but it's not the foundations.


It's rather sad the way people just mess about now a days, just for their own pleasure, their own satisfaction.
How do you know that that guy you just gave your purity up to..isn't going to leave the next day?
How do you know he's not going to go run his mouth to his friends, to prove he can get what he wants?

I'm not saying all guys, or even girls are crappy people. Not all will leave.
But I'm saying this, to put it in your head.

So what do you want?
The union/commitment
Or the
Short term low-confidence booster?