Who am I but a simple woman, who resides within a complicated body made of complex, intricate cells?
Who am I, but a young girl, with dreams and aspirations to be something great?

Do thy dreams not make me who I am?
Or do thy dreams pave the path to whom it is I shall be?
Am I not but an other being who has had their present shaped and molded by what lies in the past?

Are thy veins not filled with the same thick matter that circulates through us all? A tie that strings us all together, regardless of what the DNA matter, or what our skin may appear to be.

Are you not a being, whose heart beats just the same as mine?
Are you not a being, whose dreams fills thee to the top, brimming with ambitions?

Am I not but a hopeless romantic, with dreams and hopes, that could make even the most cold hearted swoon?

Am I not but a teenage girl, who deals with the daily issues of highschool?

Are we all not different, all unique in our ways?
Are we unique, because we all have different characteristics, or are we not unique, because we all are classified as being different, thus, making us the same in one aspect?
Or does that one aspect not matter, for it does not make us differ from our personalities, but allow us to express ourselves?
Does our uniqueness not let us shine, like we're our own star?

Do we surround ourselves with those whose shine is alike, yet differs, because no one can be exactly the same? So we're one big shining supernova?
Or do we stray, and spread ourselves around the sky, shining in different areas, letting ourselves be who ever we wish to be?
Or do we stick to those unlike us, so we can all be recognized for our doings?


Are we all not equal?
Documents and leaders claim so,
But none of us have the exact things one another does.
Sure, we may have the same chances in life, and maybe with the same restrictions..but due to circumstances..we may not be able to make those.
Life is never fair, and although we may try to make it seem as such, it is almost futile
But atleast we try.

Am I not but a being?
Am I not anything, but who I am?
Are we all not connected in this world, by some force or an other?

The way I see it..

Intercourse- Sexual Union

That is the definition that was in my health careers book. You may find it interesting, and ask why on Earth I'm writing a blog about such a thing.

And I'll say this to you, most don't view it that way. It's a union, it's a commitment.
It's not something you should just give away.

Now, I'm not against sex before marriage. It's your body, its your choice. If you're all for waiting until after you're married, that's perfectly fine. More power to you :>

But what does bother me, is the way some of us, just fling ourselves around. Like our body is just something to be toyed with.

It's as if we don't have enough pride in ourselves, and we build ourselves up with acts that we almost rather not speak about infront of those who are stricter with their bodies.

I don't care how careful you are...things still can happen.
And if you're young...are you fully ready for what can happen?

I see it as a union. Something that shouldn't be given away just because you're feeling it in that moment, with that person. I don't think it's something to be taken too lightly, honestly.
I think, it's a commitment. And now it's not just you, but someone else.
Because they could be at fault if something happens too.
I think it should be done out of love, and i think you shouldn't be pressured into doing it.
No one in a healthy, stable relationship will ever say that they wished they gave it up sooner.
Because they understand that it can build a relationship up, but it's not the foundations.


It's rather sad the way people just mess about now a days, just for their own pleasure, their own satisfaction.
How do you know that that guy you just gave your purity up to..isn't going to leave the next day?
How do you know he's not going to go run his mouth to his friends, to prove he can get what he wants?

I'm not saying all guys, or even girls are crappy people. Not all will leave.
But I'm saying this, to put it in your head.

So what do you want?
The union/commitment
Or the
Short term low-confidence booster?

Naive? Or Too Nice?

So a few things have been getting the wheels in my head turning recently.

So let's say...you have a huge crush on someone, and then..when you finally tell that person, they come up with a reason they don't want to be in dating relationship with you, but yet, they carry on. They carry on in the playful, flirty ways they have been since the start; making you fall even farther and harder. And you're in a whirlwind..your head is in the clouds, your feet...floating above the ground.

I'm all for happiness. I'm all for love. Trust me on this, I'm one of the biggest hopeless romantics, ever.
But I have a good dose of cynicalism and logical in my blood as well.
The romanticness is for my relationship.
The logical, is for both.

I can understand why these two would continue to carry on, because they're making each other happy..without any commitments.

Now, seeing as you're not in a relationship with this person..they have the space to go and be with others, and not feel any remorse..because there are no strings that really tie you two together. And I'm not saying the other person is heartless, I'm just saying, they have the free will to do as they please. And if they really cared, they wouldn't do that to you, yes. But what if they're just having this...let's call it mini-relationship, where you two act as a couple, but are not...what if they're carrying that on, for the moment..because it's a quick fix...and there's no real work/effort behind it? It's as if, they're saying they're interested in you, but don't want the work that could/does come with an actual relationship.

I'm not against those people, who chose to be like that..because at the end of the day, it's your life you have to live, not mine. But are you being naive..thinking that maybe..if you give them time, they'll come around, and be with you? Or is more of an issue of being too nice? In the end, you're being a bit of both..simply because you're falling for them..and it seems as if they almost don't respect you, on a level they really should. Because you're giving them the power to destroy you, and they could be playing you just like a game...I'm not saying anyone is playin' anyone, and I'm not trying to make you guys paranoid..but if you're in one of these mini-relationships...ask yourself.
Do you honestly think they'll change their minds?
Is it right of them to be like "Oh, well, I don't wanna date you." then play around as if you're a couple? Is that not a bit hurtful to you?
Are you being truthful to yourself? I mean, is this really what you want? The constant wonder if it'll turn around..must be rather daunting.
How long do you let this carry on for? How much time do you give them...before you walk, because you're tired of nothing changing?

I'm thankful I'm in a secure relationship. And super super happy, for that matter :>
And I know that this happiness, is here to stay. Even if we have to over come stuff, we will..because if you're meant to be together, you'll always find a way to be together. And Overcoming things, makes you two stronger, together.
These bonds shall never be broken <3

But anyways.
Yes.
Even if my friends get all tangled up in one of those mini-relationships..I shall be here..to help them out.
No matter what.
:>